Alright, it might go completely against your nature and feel absolutely stupid to do it, but if you want to really let this new chick into your life and make her feel special, cry. Yes you can do what all of the other guys do and buy her tons of gifts or take her on fancy dates, but she’s been there before. Crying is completely personal and, with most guys, hardly ever shared. By crying, you’re going to show her that she is something amazing because she can see you do it. But there’s a sort of strategy to using this to move things further.
When to Do It
You don’t just want to start crying over everything, because that will make you look like a wimp and she will not want someone who is like that in her life. She wants to be taken care of to some extent, and if you’re too busy sobbing into your spilt milk, she’s going to walk away. Appropriate times to bust out a tear or two are after important talks. Whether it’s talking about your future or present, if there’s any sort of conflict or a question of it, grab her hands and look her in the face. Tell her how important she is to you and let out some tears. Of course you want to wipe them away when the time feels right, since this will have to look and be authentic. The idea is that the subject of you two not being happy (or even just her not being happy) has moved you to tears.
How Much to Let Go
What She’ll Think
When she sees you cry, she’s not only going to feel special for being able to see you in this state, she’s going to develop an attachment to you. You’re going to look incredibly confident for letting this side of you out. That makes you sexy and sensitive, like all of the guys in the romance movies.
While you don’t want to come across as overly sensitive, you do want to let her see a part of you most people don’t. Even if you’re putting it on as a bit of an act, try to take it from a place that is authentic. Most people don’t perfect actors, and trying to squeeze out some tears over nothing will cut your act in half faster than using eye drops to fake your tears.