You may be on a sex dating site, but that does not mean the girl wants you to tell her you want to have sex before you even say hi. If your approach is to tell a girl you want to have sex with her like you are shaking hands, she is going to be instantly turned off and want to run for the hills. This does not mean that she does not want to hear that you are interested in her sexually. After all, she would not be on the site if she wasn’t interested in finding someone to potentially get intimate with. You have to remember that underneath it all, she is a woman and women don’t want to feel objectified. She can have sex with any guy she wants, so show her why you are the guy she wants.
Talk about Her Desires
Every woman wants to feel they are having attention paid to them. Start off by making the conversation about her. Talk to her about what she is looking for, or ask her about her desires and what turns her on. Make sure she knows you are interested in knowing all about her and what she enjoys, because you would like to make her feel fulfilled by satisfying her every sexual desire. The more you let her talk about what she wants, the more she will start to think about doing those things with you. This is your chance to start talking about the things you would like to do as well.
Let Her Know Your Fantasies
Delve into Steamy Conversation
With the knowledge of what she wants and since she knows what you want, you can start talking about what you can do together. Talk about what you want to do and where you want to do it. Again, if you are able to offer as much description as possible, you can provide her with the images in her mind about what is going to happen and she will be more inclined to make it happen with you. Make sure you are listening to what she is saying and you are encouraging her to get involved. The more she gets involved in the discussion, the better your chances are it will go beyond a heated discussion and become a real life encounter.