When you first start seeing a chick, even if it’s just for an alt hookup, you’ll want to do everything that you can to keep her around. While you can buy her flowers and open doors at every turn, there’s more that you can do. They say it’s the little things in life that count, and while that’s sappy as hell it’s true for a lot of women. Not sure what the little things are? There are more than can be counted, but doing at least these three will keep her coming back for more.
Commenting on Her Appearance
While it’s not uncommon to tell a woman how beautiful she is, it still comes across as stale just because she’s heard that before. Even when she presents herself to you as a beautiful, flawless creature who happened to roll out of bed all dolled up, that’s not the case. She might be wearing a dress that’s quick to get on, but it’s probably the fourth or fifth one she picked out. Her makeup might be a simple black eyeliner and red lip, but you can bet that she has layers of primer, foundation, contouring, blush, and highlighter on just to make sure that she looks “natural.” No matter how simple her look is, it took time and effort. Compliment her every time on something specific. “Your makeup looks really nice. You must be really good at it.” “Wow, that dress is so cool. I’ve never seen a pattern like that before.” Noticing something in particular and complimenting her on it will give credit to her efforts and show that you’re looking at more than just her overall hotness.
Smile for Absolutely No Reason
Slip a small smile on a few times a night when you see her. She’ll always be wondering what you’re smiling about, but will secretly know that it’s something about her that you love. Catching her off guard and giving a small hint that there’s an aspect of her that makes you feel so good you have to just stare and smile will make her feel better than getting a dozen roses. Plus you’ll be doing yourself a favor by giving her something to think about. The more you’re in her thoughts, the more likely she’ll want to give you a call the next day.
Call Her Beautiful
While it might seem like a no-brainer, calling her beautiful will make her feel good. But you want to do it in a way that won’t make you seem annoying or overbearing. A wide-eyed, open mouthed face when you first see her at the beginning of a date will silently tell her that you think she’s drop dead gorgeous without wearing out your “beautiful” quota. Stick to telling her when she truly does look it. Phrases like, “This is the prettiest I’ve seen you all week/month/year,” will really hit home.
Once you’ve gotten to know her a little bit you can add even more little things to your roster. Maybe she always flips her hair or enjoys playing footsie under the table. Comment on her cute habits and reciprocate the off-beat affections she gives you.