Men who get a lot of women can come from all walks of life. You don’t need a pile of cash or to look like Benedict Cumberbatch to get the ladies. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering how an average Joe finds himself with more women than he knows what to do with, let us tell you: there are three things that every successful ladies’ man has, and none of them are external wealth. These three traits will improve your game and get you the female attention you’ve always wanted.
Trait #1: Persistence
Winners never quit, and quitters never win. This doesn’t mean that you should hassle one woman until she goes out with you. Persistence applies to finding dates in general, not to any one woman. Go on a few alternative dating sites and send your opener around to a bunch of different ladies. Meet a lot of women and talk to them all. Don’t slow down when you get one rejection, or two, or three, or five, or twenty.
Don’t just give up on women if you don’t see it paying off immediately. Hold a conversation with her before you write her off, whether this is online or in person. Don’t let a conversation die. Get more information or change the subject, but keep her engaged and interested. The longer you’re talking to her, the better the chance that something might actually come from it.
Trait #2: Good Grooming
It’s common sense that you shouldn’t turn up for a date smelling like a sewer or drenched in Axe Body Spray. Good grooming goes just a little bit beyond that. It doesn’t take much effort to work out what color looks best on you and then buy a few more shirts in it. Ask any sister, girlfriend, or even female store employee, and she’d be happy to point it out for you. Make sure you don’t have a unibrow. Shave or grow a mustache or beard, but commit to one or the other. Don’t have a scraggly look going on. There’s a world of difference between the look of stubble over a chiseled jaw and the patchy goatee you tried to grow in college.
If you want to take it the extra step with your appearance, buy some whitening strips. White teeth are the easiest, best improvement a man can make, and it’s not even complicated.
Trait #3: A Gimmick
Finally, every successful guy has a gimmick. It’s the one trait that sets him apart from all the other persistent men who know how to dress a bit above average. The great thing is that your gimmick can be anything that appeals to women. You just have to play it up. Pick up one skill or hobby that you can demonstrate as your own. Play the guitar, speak French, train for marathons with your dog, anything. Anything remotely interesting can be your gimmick, so long as it gets a woman’s attention and keeps her asking questions about you.
Armed with this knowledge, you can be well on your way to hooking up with more women. Just tweak your wardrobe, select your gimmick, and join up the dating sites so that you can have exposure to more women then ever before. Keep these three traits in mind, and you’ll have your pick of the ladies.