Any man trying to pick up women knows that they can be particular, especially when deciding who to go home with at the end of the night. To avoid being shoved aside for some other guy, pay attention to your habits. Even subconscious ones can put women off without you even knowing it. It sucks, but these days women are harder to impress. Put yourself at the top of the heap by steering clear of these three habits that women just can’t stand.
The bad boy look doesn’t fly with the ladies these days, and you’re more likely to get slapped than laid if you’re sitting there blowing smoke in her face. Not only are cigarettes not allowed in most places anyway, but women are also statistically more likely to steer clear of a guy who’s smoking. It turns out that women these days don’t like kissing guys who taste like ash trays, and all that medical research saying how bad smoking is for you has really stuck. If you really can’t quit, pick up an electronic cigarette. It works like a vaporizer instead of a filter for smoke, you can buy refills in various scents, and you won’t put her off by smoking it around her. If anything, she’ll be thrilled that you made the effort to indulge in smoking in a healthier way that’s better for the people around you.
Winking and other forms of physical flirting are really huge turn-offs for a lot of women. They’ve been taught from a young age to be disgusted by overt displays of affection or arousal from men, so you’ll probably just get scoffed at instead of hit on. Just know that she isn’t impressed when she walks by a man leaning on the bar winking at her. She knows just what you want, and how forward you are is making her not want to give in. Grace her with a smile instead. It’s flattering and tells her that you’re interested without being too over about it. Even if you do just want to get her in bed, that doesn’t mean she has to know from the start.
For some reason, men just seem to be itchier than women. Guys are always scratching their balls or fixing their junk, and the worst part is you might not even realize that you’re doing it. Just know that even if you don’t notice it, every woman in the room does. When asked what a guy’s most disgusting habit was, most women said itching his privates in public. If you want a look that screams “caveman” at the bar, then go ahead and keep doing this. Women are guaranteed to go home with men who can behave themselves, so put on your best face. Consider this like an interview. Would you adjust your junk at an interview? You probably wouldn’t. Take some time to be self-aware and you’ll be much better off because of it, not to mention you’ll bag all the women that the other men lose.