How to Prepare
You’ve gotten yourself the most amazing meet-up with a hot alternative woman, all courtesy of an alternative dating site that is good. You might be feeling a little nervous about the meet-up, and that’s normal. We were nervous the first few times that we hooked up with women that we met online, too.
The key is to remember that she’s probably just as anxious.
And that’s fine. So long as you’ve been on an alternative dating site with good ratings, though, you’ve got the cards stacked in your favor. You’re meeting up with an amazing woman, and you’re going to have the time of your life.
That means it’s time to get yourself ready for an evening that you’re not going to forget–hopefully, so long as you two don’t end up drunker than you’ve ever been. With that in mind, we really recommend that you don’t consume too much alcohol, wherever the two of you end up meeting up. It can really ruin a sexy evening, and we know that sex is what is on both of your minds.
Even if you’re sure you’re safe, keep stock of what you’ve got on you.
If you’ve been using the right sites, then you’ve probably nabbed yourself an amazing lady. That being said, it’s probably wise not to have all your credit cards, bank cards, and cash on you. Leave some in the car or back at home rather than drag it all with you, because you never know what might happen.
Bring your cellphone with you, too, because if anything happens, you’ll want to have a means to contact someone quickly and easily. Safety is key no matter how hot this woman is, and rest assured, she will be doing the exact same things that you are. She wants to stay safe, too.
Be ready and have supplies with you.
You’re going to want to pack an overnight bag with a few different things, depending on the meet-up. Basics definitely include a change (or two) of clothes, your basic toiletries, and of course, all the sexual aids that you think you’ll need.
Don’t skimp on the lube. If you and your lady end up really hitting it off, the two of you might want a night that lasts for a lot longer than either of you are used to, and lube is a necessity to make that happen.
Also, don’t be the idiot that forgets condoms. She’s probably going to bring a few for you as well, but it’s still smart to have a brand new box to break into. It shows that you’re smart, prepared, and not out to take advantage of her like a lot of other guys probably would be.
Impress her with your own appearance.
She already likes the way you look. You’ve posted enough pictures online that she’s seen you and all your mods in their full glory…but not up close and personal. You want to make a good impression by having yourself groomed to the nines, and looking really good for your date.
Women appreciate good hygiene. Take a shower before you meet up with her, and make sure you’ve shaved–or haven’t, depending on what she likes. Make sure you’ve got all your piercings in, and most importantly: smell good.
Women want a man that smells as nice as he looks.
You’d be surprised how important it is for a man to smell good. If you’ve been busy with work all day, you’re going to be sweaty, gross, and generally rank. We know. We’ve been there. Don’t show up to a date like that, whatever you do; it’s not going to make a good impression on her, or anyone else that’s around you.
A woman–even an alternative woman–is going to want her man to smell good. We’re not telling you to load up on Axe, because that’s got the makings of frat boy and fumbling teenager all over it. We’re telling you to put on a bit of aftershave, deodorant, and generally smell fresh, clean, and masculine. It’s going to turn her on, and keep her around all through the night.
You know how perfume makes you want to lean in and smell more of her? Remember that rule with your own applications of scent. Make her want to cuddle up to you and bury her face into your neck. If she does that, then you know you’ve done it right.
Keep an open mind, and you can’t go wrong.
No matter how nervous you are, or how you’re sure that you’ve forgotten something at home, just remember: it’s no big deal. Keep an open mind, laugh it off, and just have a good time.
The more you roll with the punches, the more she’s going to be into you, and the better time that the two of you are going to have. Discover a new kink that neither of you had discussed before? Chat about it quickly, and dive right in.
So long as you two are being safe, sane, and consensual about all the alt sex that you’re having, it can only end up being fun, exciting, and exhilarating for both of you.