Who Are Alt Ladies Looking For?
First and foremost, you need to realize that alt women are all about not giving a damn what others think. In order to get one of these women, you need to have a similar mindset…or at least be able to go along with those ideals, given the opportunity.
They want a man that’s paved his own way.
They’re going to think it’s incredibly sexy if you have a job that lets you work from home, or if you’re your own boss. This is because they really want a man that can dress and act the way that he wants in the scheme of his job without getting any flack for it. It also means that you can determine your own free time, and shape your schedule in whatever way that pleases you, and still gets your work done.
This doesn’t mean that they want a slacker. On any real alternative dating site, women are going to be able to find guys like that and they aren’t going to be interested. They want a man that has his ducks in a row, just like they do.
Just because they’re alternative doesn’t mean they don’t have their heads on straight.
This is something that many men seem to not realize about alternative women. These women, in many ways, have their lives in order way more than any normal women do. These are ladies that have it going on, know they do, and their confidence is what drives their lives. They have the strength to be individuals, and that’s what is so attractive about them. Making them into something less wouldn’t be any fun at all, and you definitely wouldn’t feel such a draw to them as you do now.
These women don’t want a deadbeat. Just because they want a man that is into the same alt cultures that they are definitely doesn’t mean that you should be a slacker that sits around and does nothing. Legit alternative dating sites will never work for you if that’s the kind of lifestyle you lead, so get up and do something for sure.
Personal expression is key to these women.
That’s why your job is so important to them. If you’re a 9 to 5 worker at a bank, they’re going to be rolling their eyes and skipping off to find someone else…or else, you better be a 9 to 5 worker at that bank that’s so important that you can show off every tattoo that you’ve got.
Being able to show of their body mods, be they tattoos, piercings, or anything else, is extremely important to alternative women. It’s an expression of their individuality that they’ve worked very hard at crafting, and that’s why if you’re with one of them, you’ll be expected to be just as proud as whatever alt lifestyle you’ve chosen to lead.
That being said, don’t be weird about it.
By weird about it, we mean that while these alt women are going to want you to appreciate their tattoos and body mods, they don’t want you to sit and gush about them for hours.
That gets close to fetishizing their tats and piercings and all that, and while some people might be interested in that kind of thing, remember–this is more about the kind of woman that you’re after, not what she’s got all over her body. The tattoos and piercings and what have you are just a byproduct of her individuality, and while she’s going to be proud of them, that doesn’t mean you need to obsess over them.
Never turn your nose up at what they’re into.
Alt women are going to like what they like no matter what you say, so there’s no point in trying to shame them. If anything, that’s just going to ruin your chances forever when it comes to actually getting into bed with them.
It doesn’t matter if you aren’t into having tattoos yourself, or if you’re just not sure why she had to have her labia pierced. It’s her body, and she’s going to do what she wants with it. That confidence should be something that you find sexy, not something that you find off-putting.
They want a man that’s into the same out-there stuff.
And trust us–we know it can get pretty out there. That’s the allure of an alternative woman, though; we know you’re bored with the norm, and really want a woman that’s going to give you something new and exciting in your every day life.
The more open-minded you are about their interests, the better. This is going to make them respect you a lot more as a man as well, and really keep their attention focused on you. It’s just as hard for them to find the right man as it is for you to find the right woman, so between the two of you, you’ll be able to have a match that sends of sparks into the atmosphere.
She doesn’t want to be taken care of.
She wants attention, but don’t pamper her or baby her. She’s strong and unique, and that’s why you want to be with her in the first place. Don’t take that strength away from her, or you’ll find yourself with a very angry alt woman on your hands.
Take it from us–that’s the last thing that you’re ever going to want to deal with.