There are two approaches to this: you can be the Music Man and make your own or just be the Music Collector. The Music Man plays an instrument of some sort, the sexiest being the guitar, of course. It’s actually relatively easy to learn the guitar, and if you’re willing to buy one, it can really benefit you when it comes to bringing up hobbies in those first tentative conversations. Go to YouTube and find yourself a few chords to play. Chords can be combined into a variety of songs and lyrics can be strung over them easily. You might not be looking to start a new hobby – that’s fine. Just stick with what you’re already doing. Most people have a favorite band, and you can be known by that. Maybe you really love The Beetles or Ludacris. Mention it enough and you’ll be known as the guy who really loves (band name here).
Do you have a way with words? Make it work for you. Women may not even realize it at first, but a man who can write poetry can make a woman melt. You’re well versed in the English language, which means that you can think of some pretty sexy phrases to text her in the middle of the day and get her wanting you before she even sees you. Aside from the sexual aspect of it, a lot of ladies are romantic, and nothing says romance more than verse. Even short poems about how beautiful she looks or the last time you saw her will end up staying in her phone or on her refrigerator for a long, long time.
Yeah, bet you didn’t see this one coming, huh? Women love a man who is selfless. When you reveal to her that you’re a volunteer at a homeless shelter/animal shelter/soup kitchen, etc., you’re going to come across as a man who is making the world a better place. It’s not traditional, but it’s interesting, and there’s literally no downside to it.
Working with Your Hands
Being a Mr. Fix-it is a subtle type of sexy as well. While it might not get her panties wet right off the bat, eventually she’ll need help fixing something. When you show up as a blue collar hero and put that shelf back where it should be or stop her toilet from running, she’s going to find you incredibly compelling. A man who works with his hands is invaluable around the house, and you’re going to be her first person on call when something goes wrong, meaning you’ll be visiting her fairly often. Just make sure there’s some hanging out involved as well.